Instinctive Parenting : Trusting Ourselves to Raise Good Kids

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Format: Hardcover
Pub. Date: 2010-03-16
Publisher(s): Gallery Books
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Summary

From the founding editor-in-chief of Babble.com, a complete and completely reassuring guide that will show parents how to abandon their insecurities, trust their instincts, and enjoy raising a happy, considerate child.What's the right way to parent? Venture into any playground or online message board and you'll find as many opinions as there are adults present. Every subject -- from sleep training to time-outs to pacifiers -- has its supporters and detractors, and every viewpoint can be backed up by a truckload of research and statistics.It's enough to reduce a new parent to tears, if the 3 a.m. feedings and endless recitations ofGoodnight Moonaren't doing that already. Yet there is a way to end the madness, to calm your fears, and to make those precious early years a source of joy for both of you. Ada Calhoun, a young mother herself, infusesInstinctive Parentingwith the smart and candid approach that earned Babble an ASME nomination for General Excellence Online and close to two million readers. Her simple yet profound advice: Find what works for you and your family and ditch the anxiety and judgment.Everyone wants to do what's best for his or her child, yet the fact is there is no universal "best." Whether you start solids at four months or eight, whether you co-sleep or Ferberize, whether Junior's mac'n'cheese is dayglo orange or 100 percent organic matters a lot less than other parenting books -- and other parents -- might have you believe. What does matter is providing the few absolute essentials (love, food, shelter) while teaching your little one how to be a kind, responsible human being. With its compelling mix of entertaining, hilarious fi rsthand accounts and refreshing common sense,Instinctive Parentingwill show you how to do that -- and even show you how to retain your sanity, your friends, your sense of humor, and your personal life in the process.

Table of Contents

Introduction: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Babyp. xi
Shelter
On Shelterp. 3
A Design Opportunityp. 7
Who Are the People in Your Neighborhood?p. 11
How Much Negativity Is Helpful?p. 15
Registering: What You Really Need in the Nurseryp. 20
The Thousand-Dollar Question: What Kind of Stroller Are You?p. 23
The Disgrace That Is the United States's Leave Policyp. 26
How We Think About Workp. 31
The Truth About Cats and Dogs and Babiesp. 33
Blogs and Confessionsp. 36
TV or Not TV?p. 40
Scary Storiesp. 43
Travels with Babyp. 47
Marital Relationsp. 49
Those First Weeks Back from Leavep. 55
Cars and Trucks and Things That Gop. 65
Other People's Kidsp. 68
Share and Share Alikep. 73
The Great Sleep-Training Debatep. 77
Anxiety-Free Potty-Trainingp. 84
Postpartum and Postpostpartum Depressionp. 86
Sex and Marriagep. 89
Language Development Crazinessp. 92
The Almighty Napp. 95
Danger!p. 97
School Daysp. 101
Becoming Like Our Parents-or Notp. 105
First Friendshipsp. 110
Cracking the Whipp. 112
How Many Kids Should You Have?p. 117
Food
On Foodp. 123
Defending Junkp. 127
Booze and Drugs (For You, Not the Kid)p. 130
Time to Eatp. 132
A Modest Proposal: Bring Back Home Economicsp. 134
Snack Attackp. 137
Allergy Alert Daysp. 139
The Evil Turkey Sandwichp. 143
The Breastfeeding Warsp. 146
Eating Together as a Familyp. 152
Love
On Lovep. 159
The Name Gamep. 163
When You're Pregnant, It Takes a Village ... to Judge Youp. 167
A Reality Check for Working Parentsp. 174
Here's to Babysittersp. 180
Birth Storiesp. 185
Labor Plans and Realitiesp. 189
Real Abusep. 193
The Hard Partsp. 196
Party Time!p. 202
Illnessp. 209
What We Talk About When We Talk About Our Kidsp. 213
Having Faithp. 216
In Praise of Stepchildrenp. 220
Separation Anxietyp. 222
Regretting Your Lifep. 225
Vaccination Paranoiap. 231
The Great Circumcision Debatep. 235
Toddlers in Lovep. 238
Taking Along the Kidsp. 242
Conclusion: Battling the Jinxp. 251
Endnotesp. 255
Acknowledgmentsp. 261
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