This powerful self-help book will change the way you see your past and transform the way you live now.

Do you struggle to find happiness in yourself or in relationships? Do you have issues with your physical or mental health such as fatigue, anxiety, or depression? Are you unable to truly feel your emotions? You are not alone. And maybe you need to stop blaming yourself.

We are all affected by our early experiences—both good and bad. But for many of us, the patterns of our younger years have damaged us as adults, leaving us unable to truly feel or form lasting positive relationship with ourselves and others. In this book, therapist Alex Howard recounts how his own childhood traumas shaped him and how he healed.


As children, we’re dependent on those around us to meet our emotional needs for us—the need for boundaries, safety, and love. When these key needs go unanswered, the template for good mental health in adulthood is not properly formed. As adults, we can learn to meet these needs for ourselves, but first we need to heal the wounds that shape us. Childhood trauma can continue to damage us throughout our lives if we don’t seek to confront it. Drawing on his own work with himself and his clients, Alex Howard sets clear path to understanding your own unique blueprint from childhood and then provides a clinically proven reset plan for healing.

It's Not Your Fault will help you to understand your trauma, build better boundaries, and connect to your emotions to create healthy relationships.

Alex Howard is a therapist, and the Chairman of The Optimum Health Clinic (OHC), one of the world’s leading integrative medicine clinics. He is the creator of Therapeutic Coaching™, and Conscious Life, which has been described as the 'Netflix of Conscious Living'. He documents his therapeutic work with real life patients via his In Therapy with Alex Howard YouTube series. www.theoptimumhealthclinic.com