The Thing You Think You Cannot Do: Thirty Truths About Fear and Courage

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Pub. Date: 2012-04-10
Publisher(s): Perseus Books Group
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Summary

What are we afraid of and what can we do about it? Fear--of change, of intimacy, of loss, of the unknown--has become a corrosive influence in modern life, eroding our ability to think clearly. Exploited for power by politicians and for money by the media, it has become embedded in the way we think about our lives. Overcoming our fear, says Gordon Livingston, constitutes the most difficult struggle we face. Dr. Livingston, a psychiatrist, has increasingly found himself prescribing virtues like courage to his patients instead of tranquilizers or antidepressants. Now he tells us all what we need to do to develop personal virtues in the face of societal fear-and our own individual fears. And he does this with the crystalline prose and leavening wit that have made him an internationally bestselling author. As the celebrated novelist Mark Helprin has said of Dr. Livingston: "To read him is to trust him and to learn, for his life has been touched by fire, and his motives are absolutely pure."

Table of Contents

Introductionp. xi
It is dying that makes life importantp. 1
Fear is the death of reasonp. 15
Matters of the heart (or of state) that begin with a lie rarely end wellp. 21
You have never suffered enoughp. 30
Sometimes courage is hoping against hopep. 38
Old age is the revenge of the uglyp. 48
In life beyond high school, no one gives you credit for effortp. 54
Fear lurks behind perfectionismp. 61
Courage is not a feeling; it is habitp. 68
Beware of ideas on which we all agreep. 74
There is no humor in heavenp. 81
Determination in the pursuit of folly is the indulgence of foolsp. 87
Courage can be taught only by examplep. 95
Nothing prepares us for the terrible risk of intimacyp. 101
Life is not a rehearsalp. 108
Courage is like love; it must have hope to nourish itp. 115
Punishment and revenge are the favored responses of fearful peoplep. 121
Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's couragep. 125
Cowardice is the incapacity to love anything but oneselfp. 131
Honesty is a prerequisite for couragep. 136
Fear springs from ignorancep. 142
It is pointless to fear the pastp. 149
There are wounds that doctors cannot reach, that gratitude cannot healp. 155
Courage is required to bear the unbearablep. 159
Ignorance can be remedied; stupidity has no curep. 163
Heroism is sometimes stubbornness in the face of adversityp. 167
Life is not a spectator sportp. 173
One of the greatest risks is to be honest with ourselvesp. 178
At the heart of anger is sadnessp. 183
The quest for courage is a journey withinp. 190
Acknowledgmentsp. 199
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